Han’s problem wasn’t the fact that Leia was that singularly focused anymore, but rather the problems faced with just about everyone he knew, his own age, that was married. How do you keep things exciting after so many years? What types of things can be surprising when you feel like you’ve spent your best ideas years ago. How do you find the time to come together again when it feels like you’re being pulled in opposite directions. How do you remove the every day distractions so that you can be present with each other.

How do you even turn off the new iPhone? They keep changing where the power button is

This young lady was in the early phases of getting to know him still and he was jealous of how exiting it was in those days. She didn’t even seem all that fond of him, yet, from what he could tell.

“Those are both good ideas.” He says, in a thoughtful murmur. “I can’t recall the last time I’d asked her to do either.”